Just to verify do you have acces to the router from remote client?

Are you routing all traffic from the remote device through your lan router, or using split tunnel?

Im not a network pro, but I am running a very similar setup to circumvent CG-NAT and access lan servers. Things that I ran into were making aure I had the correct “Allowed IPs” set on all clients, and proper “routes” setup on the router.

Ive had Trilium running for 2 years and it’s been perfect for me but I’m not a power user of it. I’ve yet to upgrade to Trilim Next, simply not needing anything more. I guess all I can say is it hasn’t eaten my data.

I have Immich on a proxmox container and use proxmox backup. It has already save me once.

I need an easy option to auto sync and backup my elderly parents phone pictures. That also wont propagate deletetions from either side. Im aiming for a failsafe style setup that they cant screw up.

Immich has been working well thus far. Due to the constant updates I have had a few issues to resolve after updates. Backup the backup!

This looks good! It doesnt seem that it would fit my use case at the moment but it will be on my radar.

I do this already, but I’m going compare my nftables rules when i get home. You’re ip table looks more elegant.