IIRC there are prescribed acts you can do that should be a form of penitence - that whole “Say 10 Hail Mary’s and don’t call Satan in the morning” thing. It feels a little akin to a kid, caught doing something bad to their neighbour’s property by mom, getting dragged to the neighbour’s door to apologize. There’s a good chance they are apologizing without actually feeling penitent, but once the conditions of the punishment are carried out, they are in a sense free to go.

Like with the above, I think the idea is that you should truly feel penitent and these acts are an honest expression of that. But if we take a look at the history of the Catholic Church I’m not convinced that wasn’t put to the wayside a long time ago (see the trade of plenary indulgences in the middle ages).

Second the request any comments from ex- or current Catholics though, this is just my impression from the outside/watching a lapsed Catholic grapple with their faith.

These are very fair criticisms, and curiosity is key. It’s more about the opportunities to follow your curiosity/get exposed to ideas that may at first be outside of your interests. Formal education can facilitiate that well, but you’re right that it’s not the only way or the best way for everyone. Learning never stops.

It was a very weird conversation. Most of the time I didn’t think about the education gap between myself and my ex, but that was one of (to be fair) maybe three times it was illustrated.

Credit where credit’s due, she’s pretty clever in most other respects, just not this stuff as much. And it’s not like I’m an expert myself, I just know the difference here 'cause school.

True, but part of this is impact and speed. As an uneducated person, you can immediately grasp what’s intended here and why it’s bad. Takes longer, and probably time you guys in the U.S.* simply don’t have, to better educate folks to come to the same ultimate conclusion in large enough numbers.

Your education systems are widely gutted, general level of political knowledge is poor, and you have folks speed running to old school authoritarianism with the support of a lot of dumb people - and those folks are very close to the finish line. You. Don’t. Have. Time. I’m not saying I’m a fan but there’s a practical component to this.

*Noted that this is an assumption and you may not live in the U.S.

The problem being that for many people (including my own ex, apparently, both to my and my kid’s utter shock), authoritarianism and communism/socialism are synonyms. For those folks who got fed the propaganda and had no real reason or desire to question it, that’s the characterization that works the best to communicate the threat.

For reference, an actual conversation:
“Man, Trump is going to make the U.S. a full-blown communist country”
[Me and Kid: Mouth agape, silence for about 5 seconds]: “I’m sorry, WHAT?”
“Yeah, you know, communist, like Russia was with Stalin”.
“…do you not know what communism is?”
“Yes, it’s when there’s an authoritarian dictator.”
“No, that’s authoritarianism.”
“Oh. I’ve never heard of that before.”

We ran a simulation of this up here in Nova Scotia before. Here are some of the results.

I’d go more mentally competent. Are you capable of understanding the risks and what the end state actually is? You’ve had some time after the doctor has demonstrably given you the whole set of information to make an informed decision? You still want to move forward? K, here’s a surgery date.

Might just be me, but mental stability has some slippery connotations (thinking about the history of the term hysteria, different forms of social stigma turned into pathology, etc.) But we could very well be talking about the same thing using a different word.

Eh…I’d want a lot more effort spent to ensure patients are given 100% accurate, fully informed information re: outcomes and upkeep, and give consent only after seriously weighing that, but I dunno about banning purely cosmetic surgery.

A) I like the idea that humans have the freedom to modify their own bodies in whatever ways they see fit, so long as they accept the risks and realistic outcomes, and B) Banning would just create more underground practices, which is particularly bad for patient safety.

It’s always best to address stuff like this with a very wide grin and say “Ah, it’s good to know that for all your self-righteousness and false piety, you will burn in hell, and Jesus will weep knowing his sacrifice meant nothing to you. Ta!”

You don’t even need to believe it, it just really gets under people’s skin. Fuck 'em.

Thing is, a lot of information about the current state of political affairs is blasting through all channels. Some people just want to use Lemmy to shitpost, hang out in CasualConversation, or look a funnies from Stamets.

I think that’s a fair use case, and doesn’t necessarily mean someone who does this is sticking their head in the sand about the current political order going to shit.

Not gonna lie, I liked him in News Radio and didn’t mind him when just commentating on MMA.

Fuck what he’s up to these days though.

Final edit (note to self: try all things before posting): the url works with or without dei in it. Do wonder about an existing link, somewhere, to try. Beyond that, post is false in my testing.

/paraderaining

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Which in turn took a freighter, or so the song goes.

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Purely for the purpose of fairness/general interest, here’s what I’ve found from Dessaline in this thread re: debunking on various topics. What you make of them and their merit is up to you, I’m just here cruising this thread for jokes myself.

Will say I think they’d be better served with adding the links when saying this, or under deleted comments saying “topic was x, debunked here [link]”, but that’s just me. I also cannot say for certainty I’ve captured every relevant post, particularly re: the content of removed comments [going into the mod log is an extra step I’m not doing rn, but you could if you wanted and try cross-referencing]

https://lemmy.ml/comment/16149912

https://lemmy.ml/comment/16149886

https://lemmy.ml/comment/16136497

https://lemmy.ml/comment/16135781

Edit: Removed one link, as it’s a different instance of the same message. Again, think I’m missing stuff but I’m about go offline, so out of time.

The biggest career mistake I’ve ever made is opening an Excel macro and changing two characters to make it count a thing again.

I was then permanently labelled Cracks the Technomancer, master of all things technology. It fucking sucks.

Naive in the sense that it doesn’t adequately account for the situation of many people. Not everyone has the circumstances where they can do this. I can’t help but feel there’s some survivorship bias influencing your position.

I’m curious, though, if you’re up to illustrating (if not, totally fine): You are a single mother of two sons, ages 7 and 8, living in Generic State, USA. You have a high school degree and no post-secondary education. You have limited support, solely in the form of limited childcare, from family/the wider community. You make about $1600.00 USD per month, after taxes, working 50 hours a week at a physical workplace. You’re finding yourself with $10 left at the end of each month, after all legitimately necessary expenses (rent, food, basic utilities) are paid for. Let’s make it easy and say you have no debt.

What are you doing, and where are you going, if following your advice? It should be noted these circumstances are actually quite a bit better than other folks in the U.S. To be clear, I don’t think this is a gotcha, nor is it intended to be - I just want to see your approach here.

Edit: Monthly wage should be after taxes, not before, and changed $900 to $1600 (based roughly on monthly takehome pay at Ohio’s minimum wage rate, and I calculated for 1 pay period rather than 2 per month)

So, question: You’re someone with a not-remote-friendly skill set. You save your money to travel - travel, mind you, not immigrate, so subject to the visa requirements of travellers/tourists (as this seems to be what you’re talking about - immigration is a whole different kettle of fish). The money runs out. What do?

Or - you’re living paycheck to paycheck with children. You try to save money to travel for the reasons you’ve brought up here. It’s not possible. What do?

No offence, but your account of travel as a solution here seems deeply naive. It can work for some, sure, but “just leave the country bro” simply isn’t an option at all for many, many people.

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